Misha Fields

Wife, mother, career woman, one -third member of one of my favorite female R&B groups 702, LeMisha “Misha” Fields, is proof to us ladies that with hard work and dedication yes we can have it all. I recently got the chance to chat with Misha to get her perspective on success and how she makes it all work.

Definition of success:

The most accurate definition of success is Happiness!  I don’t believe it has anything to do with how much money you have in your pocket. I don’t feel like it’s about how much time you put in the office, how many accolades you have, or how high you climb up a ladder. Happiness starts with yourself. 

It has been a tough road for me. For a while it was tough balancing  my career and my kids, then adding on 702 made it even harder. I have to remember to stay grounded and stay centered. To me happiness is definitely the definition of success.

Advice to young women aspiring to be in the music industry: 

Keep people in your circle that you can trust.  When you have a vision you need to ensure the people around you still have your same vision and on the same page as you. This is important especially for younger artists. A lot of times record labels try to mold you into what they think you are. That’s not what an artist is. An artist should be able to mold themselves, and reflect what other people are going through. The only way you can do that is to be yourself. You shouldn’t have more than three or four people in your circle that are really tight. 

Self esteem: 

The biggest thing for me right now is meditation. I meditate a lot. I created my own little mediation area in my home recently.  I also read. There is this book that I would like to tell all ladies about. It’s called “The Power of Now.” The author is Eckhart Tollee. It basically teaches you how to keep yourself in the present moment. If we keep ourselves dwelling on the past and looking to the future, we are never going to get anywhere or be content with ourselves.  

If you are in the present space you will realize that there is nothing wrong with you right now. 

Years and years ago I used to look at past pictures of myself and say man I am so fat. Now I look at myself  in pictures and say why did I use to be so skinny? I was skinny as heck what was I thinking? It teaches you to be happy where you are because now I’m about twenty pounds heavier than I was then. It makes you look at yourself and say what was I so mad about I should have just been happy. It’s about loving the skin you’re in and realize that there’s nothing wrong with me. I’m beautiful, I’m happy, and I can’t find anything to really complain about. When you stay in the present moment you can get a place where you can really find the love in you. 

Dating advice

Take your time. Don’t rush it. That’s probably the biggest advice I can give to women. A lot of times we are looking for that love and we want it so bad that we settle. You can never change a man and you shouldn’t want to. If a man is not living up to your standards from the jump then he ain’t the one. Take your time. If you keep the right people in your circle and have the right energy around you, they will come to you. 

I haven’t dated in so long. I’ve been off the market for a very very long time.  Me and my husband are junior high school sweethearts and have been married for twenty years. What I have noticed a lot about this newer generation is that they rush into these relationships and try to fix a man. If he didn’t come out right by his mama nine times out of ten you can’t help him either. 

What’s in the future:

Right now my kids will always be our main focus. My son plays football for the University of Arizona and my daughter is in high school on the varsity cheer squad. On top of that she wants to sing and model. This may sound real cliche but I’ve lived my life, but now the focus is to make sure my kids work on their goals and we pray that they reach them.  At the end of the day I’m going to do what I can to mold them into being a great young woman and great young man. 

I would love to continue to work with 702 and keep working with the girls. As long as I can keep it all going in the same way I have been able to so far.

Favorite shade of lipstick:

I don’t have it on me right now and can’t remember the name, but it’s a nude color by M.A.C. You know I’m super light skinned so finding the perfect shade of nude is hard.

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Brandy Gomez-Duplessis

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Definition of Success:

My definition of success is doing what I’m passionate about and being able to live the lifestyle that I want. I have been blessed to achieve success in my career and have the lifestyle that I want. Being an entrepreneur is hard and it’s a lot of work. You need discipline, strength and very tough skin. But success comes with sacrifice and for me that was time with my husband and kids. I missed out on a few important dates in their lives. So, I promised myself that I would always give them the best life I could give each of them every day.

Everyday that I am with them is special, so when I missed those special days it wasn’t so disappointing for them. At the end of the day, it was worth it when my kids shared with me that I was their role model not someone famous on television. They saw that my hard work was for them to live the lifestyle that they had.

Self Esteem:

Self-esteem is something that I was taught by my parents and family. They always gave me positive and encouraging words. I think women should surround themselves around people that know their worth and love how they look. The world is different now, it’s very sensitive and so is the world. You must be confident in yourself and understand that everyone is not going to embrace you. When I was growing up, I didn’t see a lot of women that looked like me on TV, magazines, and in the workplace.

My skin tone wasn’t always liked by others, but I didn’t need their approval to feel great about myself. I was already told by my loved ones and I loved what I saw when I looked in the mirror. So, if I wasn’t someone’s flavor of choice it was ok. I want girls, teens and young adults to understand that we are not always going to be someone’s flavor of choice whether it comes to looks, bodies, hair, and skin tone. And guess what, it’s ok. You need to love yourself first. Looking for love from other people to validate who you are doesn’t work. #justsaying

Dating Advice:

The advice that I would give to single women on LOVE & DATING is to enjoy yourself but respect yourself. Usually, you have already met your soulmate, he’s that friend that you’re overlooking for that bad boy. He’s that guy that is always there for you when your heart is broken. Also, date guys that are not in your community but that guys who have similar taste like you do. I can promise you that he’s not on those Apps…sorry girls.

What’s in the future:

I see for Entitled Beauty, my partner and I creating more colors and products. I see us growing and retailing not just online but in boutiques, salons, and hotels. We will become a household name!

Favorite shade of lipstick:

OMG! This is a hard question. Let’s see, my favorite shade of is lipstick is a bold purple shade called Queen B from my makeup line Entitled Beauty. It’s the color I created for us, Lupus Warriors.

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T. Cooper

NYC Celebrity Makeup Artist, Hairstylist, and Owner of Major Face, you can definitely say T. Cooper has her hands full. T.’s success in the beauty industry is definitely well deserved. She is a prime example that when you mix talent with fierce determination you have a combination that’s unstoppable.

Photo credit: Ken Jones

Definition of Success:

My definition of success is doing what you love, on your own terms. In order to get to the place in my career that I am today, I had to maintain a full-time job as a tailor, a part-time job as a bartender, and do photo shoots for free for about 11 months. Not everyone is willing to make that sacrifice, and what I see with a lot of new artists, is that they cannot recognize an opportunity that isn’t a paid opportunity. No one wants to work for free, but it’s necessary, especially in the beginning.

Self Esteem:

I struggled with self-esteem for a very long time, but I forced myself to see the beauty in myself. I was that girl who could not go to the bodega for milk without makeup. I was so insecure for anyone to see me unless I was done up, and it really affected my life. People would tell me that I looked good without it, but I didn’t believe it. I wanted to see the same thing that other people saw when they looked at me, so I eventually had to push myself outside of my comfort zone.

I started to not wear makeup, and I would alternate between long and short hair, and sometimes wear my natural hair. There was a point where I wouldn’t let anyone see my natural hair, either. Now I’m at a place where I don’t wear makeup at all (except for lip gloss) unless I’m going out, or going to be on camera, and everyone knows what my natural hair looks like. It was a long process, but I’m so happy. And I feel prettier now than I did then. 

Dating advice:

My advice to any single woman is that you have to realize that dating is hard, and it’s probably going to take time to find the right person for you. You have to be open to dating people that aren’t your “type“, sometimes people pleasantly surprise you. Don’t give up, don’t give too much to those who haven’t earned it, and realize that other people‘s shortcomings have nothing to do with you. 

What’s in the Future:

I see myself starting a blog. I have always wanted to create content, and I’m in a place now where I think that I can be consistent enough to do it.

Favorite shade of Lipstick:

My favorite shade of lipstick is rose pink. 

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